Show Your Joy
“Blessed are the joy makers” – Nathaniel Parker Willis
Do you have a friend or know someone who always makes you laugh? I do. They are the sort of people who will raise my spirits and leave me with a smile. Do you know people who are the opposite, and the option of running to hide is seriously considered when they approach? These folks seem to drain our energy with their complaints and stories of woe.
I’ve wondered if there is any great difference in the lives of these two types of people. Think of it, does the person who is joyful and raises your spirits have an easier road to tow than the complainer? Sometimes the joyful person is really the one with more things to be sorrowful for than the other, and yet, this person rises above with smiles and deep seated happiness that overflows onto everyone they greet. To them, life is indeed one big stained glass window, full of color, light and beauty. No matter how hard the going gets, joy is their companion.
Which type of person are you? While the folks described above are a little on the extreme sides of the spectrum, we all lean toward one side or the other. If you are unsure, think about your friends and acquaintances. We usually attract people like ourselves, so if you often think that your friends are negative, then evaluate what you are saying and talking about. If you are complaining constantly about the economy, or your family and don’t see much good in your life, well, guess which side you are leaning towards. Frequently, our conversation and negative talk is merely out of habit.
Becoming aware of your speaking habits is the basis to start to turn around and begin projecting joy. This will not only make your life happier, but will attract more positive and happy people into your life as well. How great to see someone’s face light up when they see you walking their way!
Lesley V. Ingves
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